I say from time to time that the value you take in social media should be equal to the value that you make. I still believe that and I still tell others that. It’s a good cornerstone. But sometimes I think we focus too much on the Utopian way things need to be in social media instead of the way things just are or will be.

The Value Myth of Social Media – Very thoughtful look at “value” and how relationships in general, not just in social media, are more subjective than we want to think.